Welcome to May, the Date Your Mate Month! It’s a good reminder that even if we’ve been with our significant other for a long time, we still need to make time for “dating.” In the beginning of most relationships, most of us go out of our way to impress the other person. We present our best selves; we buy them gifts and give them lots of attention. However, once we get comfortable, we drop our best behavior and typically let them see our real selves. While this is good and can help build a real relationship, we also start to take the other person for granted. We stop trying to impress them. We often forget to notice the nice things they do for us once they become “ordinary.”
That needs to stop. We need to make time for our significant others if we want the relationship to continue to blossom. It’s like a garden. Your job isn’t done once the flowers bloom. You need to tend to the garden or your plants will die. Your relationship, too, will suffer from a drought.
This month is a great reminder to make your relationship a top priority. Start by remembering to thank your significant other when they do something for you. Simple appreciation goes a long way. Make time to have a date night, whether that means staying in and cuddling with a romantic movie or going out to dinner. Also, take time to talk, not just your average small talk, but really communicate with one another — share and listen. Leave little tokens of love, like cards or gifts, for your significant other.
Make your relationship a priority. Yes, it will take time, but your relationship is a time investment that needs to be a priority. Make room in your calendar. This month (and going forward) always remember to let your loved one know how much you care.
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